After looking at so many definitions of the words “Spoiled Rotten” I’m not sure if it is a phrase that means something good, or something bad. I thought I knew!
So does “Spoiled Rotten” mean:
a) food that had spoiled, became rotted and is no longer edible
b) indulging a child, pet, or someone by giving them what they want, whenever they want, in excess
c) someone who didn’t do anything to deserve a showering of gifts
d) your other definition here: _____________________________
e) a badge of bragging when the giver overindulges another
Then if you look up the definitions of the words “spoiled” and “rotten” separately, you are bound to get confused!
Hopefully, this post today, is not nearly so confusing. It’s really about a sister loving a sister in an extraordinary way, giving from the heart and receiving graciously.
So here is the set-up: my sis Leesa said, “drive an hour and a half to Sarasota so I can treat you to lunch for your birthday.” She knew full well that this would not make sense to her uber logical, older sister. I mean if it’s my birthday…well, you finish the thought. Anyway, I love her and trust her, but on the drive I kept thinking, “what could be so special”, huh?
Oh how I was spoiled
She whisked me off to a enchanted cottage in downtown Sarasota called The Garden Room cafe at Shoogie Boogies. What a name, but oh my, oh me, what a splendid, charming place!
For me, it was as if I had gone down the rabbit hole as Alice in Wonderland and voila! I expected to see the Red Queen ready to escort us from one lovely room to another. A totally unexpected retreat from daily life.
The lovely hostess and owner Kathryn Kittinger was welcoming and delightfully prepared, for my birthday luncheon, a cozy table for two in the corner.
The food was yummy…really perfect; we both had mushroom soup (light, yet creamy). I had a fluffy broccoli and ham quiche, Leesa had the most marvelous looking crepes!
But the best part was just being together. Two sisters laughing, talking, sharing, just having a leisurely time of it! It really tickled me and she knew it. So elegant, so fun, great conversation with the closest and one and only sister!
Are you spoiled or a spoiler?
Plenty of giving gets done in our society, but it’s more on a tit for tat approach. Real giving can be an unexpected delight for the receiver. Jesus pursued me to give me an unexpected gift of not only eternal life but a life that is abundant with His presence. If you haven’t received that gift, the way has been made for you already: “Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.” John 1:12-13.
Soon you’ll learn a lot more about Kathryn Kittinger’s (Photographer and Creative Entrepreneur) amazing life and how she came to be in Sarasota and open this peaceful restaurant. Look for my next interview with her to really “over-the-top” encourage you!
In the meantime, have you ever been graciously spoiled by someone? I’d love to hear about it!
Leesa K. Donner · March 2, 2017 at 12:33 pm
THE THING IS…One only desires to spoil those they LOVE. And so it is sheer joy to lavish those we love by spoiling them, just as Jesus lavishes his love upon his children. Likewise, accepting such an invitation to an unknown place that requires somewhat of an uncomfortable step such as driving is an expression of TRUST. So does the invitation from Jesus — he wants us to come to him, but do we TRUST?
What it essentially comes down to is this: Life can be such an exciting adventure if we remember to love extravagantly like our savior and trust that his love is adequate.
Who could have guessed what joy was found beyond the walls of The Garden Cafe? Who could have imagined the sweet time of sharing our stories of faith with the owner? Or such a delectable lunch in such a heavenly atmosphere? It makes one pause and consider the following promise: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Cor 2:9
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